I have an aunt that actually had this problem also, she had something that would cause her babies to come out not quite normal so she opted to not have children. They seem perfectly happy and they made their cats their babies.They also spoil their nieces (my sister and I) so I think the road less traveled without children for them was the better option with less pain and difficulty. There's nothing wrong with not having babies, like Sultana said adoption is a wonderful thing and there are so many unwanted children now it would probably be a good compromise if the need for a family was dire equally amongst you two.
Personally I don't know if I want kids, probably not.
I'd like to be a career woman and get myself established before focusing on reproducing. I want to live in a big city with 500 dollar shoes and suits and make money. Sounds like fun. Oh and have a house in the Rockies and the Smokies.
Kids are expensive, messy, and ungreatful until a certain age for the most part. I often wonder how my parents did it without screwing my sis and I up permanently.
Think hard before making a decision. She probably already knows what she wants to do, y'all just need to figure it out and get everything out in the open if you're serious about spending your lives together, which is a beautiful thing.
Good luck
