Sultana

Just because she may bear babies with someone else doesn't mean they are free from the risk of autism. Wouldn't that be a kicker!

I can understand if she wants to have a family. I can understand (in an intellectual way) if she wants to have the experience of birthing her own baby. However, I don't see how in the world she can say that using a sperm donor is unethical, and to be honest, if she can't even explain it to herself, much less to you, yet is willing to consider chucking what is otherwise a good relationship (I presume), then I'd consider that to be a very shabby excuse to break up.

Adoption is a wonderful thing, but not if the parent doesn't consider that child to be as much a part of them as a child born from their own flawless genetic compounds.

And you know what? You don't want to "talk" or reason or logic someone into staying with you.

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