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Sultana · 03-20-2007, 08:05 AM

Her bringing up her "rough past" says to me that she wants to talk about it, whether for attention, venting, getting emotional support, whatever.

I have to wonder why you want to be so emotionally available to someone you've only known 2 weeks. Isn't that a bit much to take on so quickly? Does she still have a fiance?

Are you wanting to rescue her?

Just wondering. I have a lot of guy friends like that.

03-20-2007, 08:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
Sultana Falling Angel Location: L.A. L.A. land	Her bringing up her "rough past" says to me that she wants to talk about it, whether for attention, venting, getting emotional support, whatever. I have to wonder why you want to be so emotionally available to someone you've only known 2 weeks. Isn't that a bit much to take on so quickly? Does she still have a fiance? Are you wanting to rescue her? Just wondering. I have a lot of guy friends like that. __________________ "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." - Matt Groening My goal? To fulfill my potential.