I don't think there's a logical answer to that. If you truly are a spendthrift, you would be changing yourself to please someone else.
I think the question more is, is she interested/loving you for the person you are or because she wants to be like the 'other girls' and be able to say she has a boyfriend who goes into hock for her? Note, I said 'girls'. A woman will love you for what you represent to her, not what something in wrapping represents.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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