My advice is that next time don't try to solve the problem or make her feel better. Just shut up and listen, let her get it all out. Backrubs, comfort food, candles, good movies, do the little things that will make her life less stressful.
Flirt with her. Distract her mind with thoughts of being between the sheets with ya. Then fuck her brains out...cuz lets face it - it's good therapy
