Hmmm....for me I can't orgasm if I think I'm being hurried or if my partner is starting to show frustration, annoyance or boredom. If you perceive that your partner is into it and wants you to cum then you can relax and get into it. Isn't that why masterbation works? There's no pressure. Have you considered that maybe you just felt pressured?
Don't lie or fake orgasms, your needs matter and if your partner is so emotionally fragile that they can't deal with it, then maybe you need to reevaluate things.
Does that help at all?
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