I've been married to my one and only wife for 18 years. She has never had an orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, she rarely cums during intercourse even with direct clit stimulation. She cums by oral, after about 15-25 minutes. So, I lick her until she cums, then we fuck until I cum. She has very little sensation in her vagina at all. She seems bored with fucking--it does nothing for her. Occasionally she will ask me to finger her when I'm licking her clit, but for the most part penetration of any kind is not her thang. Also, she doesn't get excited from having her breasts and nipples caressed and licked.
I really really wonder what it would be like to fuck a girl until she cums. Alas, it's not to be. That's just the way it is.
I feel cheated by this, but I don't know what to do about it. She doesn't seem to care that her vagina and breasts are all but numb. Before I got married, I had many lovers, and they were very responsive to me. After all these years I've forgotten what it's like to be in the presense of an out of control woman.
You are into experimentation and open to many things--that is a big plus. Be honest, tell your lover the true story, and see what happens. Whatever you do, don't lie. It's poison.
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Last edited by Aladdin Sane; 01-21-2007 at 01:35 PM..
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