The lying is a way bigger reason to dump someone than the inability to orgasm without extreme effort. You're lucky you can do it at all. I have a feeling it will come out sooner or later and then your partner will have that moment where they are thinking back to all the times they thought you O'd and you were lying. That would definitely suck - for both of you.
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