yonique

I am 40 yrs old. I have been sexually active since I was 14. As I got older I became more educated about sexuality in general as well as my own. I have never been able to achieve orgasm with a partner through vaginal sex unless I stimulated my own clitoris and the sex lasted at least 45 min. I have achieved it maybe a half dozen times through oral but it took at least 30-45 min. I masturbate regularly, most often while viewing porn. I have been with primarily men but have experimented with women and couples. I have read, watched, heard all the advice that has ever been offered and tried it all with no success. I have resigned myself to the fact that it's just not going to happen, I just don't have it in me to try anymore. I am in a new relationship now, my boyfriend does not know of my problem. I have decided not to tell him since my inability to orgasm with a partner has contributed to the failure of all my past relationships. I was just wondering if I am the only one faking it....or do most women actually achieve orgasm through intercourse?