Dry Orgasms
Perhaps the opposite of the squirting female orgasm is the dry male orgasm? Have you come across this before?
Men can achieve 'dry orgasms' through a variety of means. Sometimes it's a medical condition, where semen flows backwards into the bladder, rather than travelling through the urethra. I imagine that you might want to visit your doctor if this happens.
But, by deliberately putting pressure on the perineum (the beginning of the urethra between the anus and testicles) immediately after orgasm, you can cause the urethra to close during ejaculation and no semen will escape. This slightly hurts your testicles and your anus and can be internally damaging, so I don't recommend it to everyone. It is the easier way to do it, though.
However, by contracting the same muscles directly during orgasm as those used to forcefully stop urination, you can have a dry orgasm more safely and it doesn't hurt me. This can take some practice, but if you master it, longer, more intense orgasms, or even the capability of having multiple orgasms, is possible. Also, the length of time before you can go again - your refractory period - is greatly reduced.
Dry orgasms can also happen if you ejaculate multiple times in a short period of time, such as an hour, as the first few ejaculations have used up the available stored seminal fluid.
Some men can experience an orgasm through their minds without attempted ejaculation or even penetration. This type of dry orgasm is one of the goals of Tantric sex, but that's another thread.
So, is this something you find interesting? Think of the savings you'd make on condoms. No unwanted pregnancies. No infected ejaculate. No sticky patches. Hmmm, if only.
But, then where's the fun if you're not painting the town white, eh?
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