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The Final Update:
Went out with her and her friends. It started off well and we got along, going for coffee since we couldn't get into the club right away.
I gave her the photos of her as a present and she enjoyed that. Complimented her a couple times and also made a point of touching her casually when I could. Sort of a way to feel her out a bit and get a sense of if she was attracted me. She didn't object, nor did she respond that much toward me.
We get in the club and it's packed. I hate these places and I'm not social in them. Too much noise, smoke and crowds that constantly bump or crush you. It's just not my scene. She's by me but not making an effort to talk. I'm standing thinking that I have to get her talking but her friends are dominating the conversation. Eventually, she goes over and starts talking with some other guys, leaving me behind with one of her friends.
It was about that point that I was thinking about the whole relationship and how she was acting tonight. I also thought about comments in this thread and decided she just not that interested in me outside of being a friend.
I got caught up talking to this guy who was nice at first then started being a prick because he was getting drunk and thinks that foreign people are bums. Why would I be travelling around the world rather than working etc... During this time, she slipped out of the club with one of her friends without saying goodbye. I didn't even care, and left as well.
Walking home, I thought about this whole situation and if it's worthwhile even as "friends". No. I was actually laughing and felt a bit free.
So I sent her a one word text message on my cell: goodbye
Onto new and better things. "It" just wasn't there with this girl.
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