It's not always a mistake to meet and marry young, but it often is. Just as much as you don't want to rush into marriage yet, neither should you rush into breaking up either. Yes, you are lucky to have such a relationship so young - many people spend their whole lives looking for what you have already. But on the other side, yeah, it's a big world, and you WILL change a lot. I think you should listen to
pigglet, and just relax a little on the talking about future stuff, and enjoy the relationship as it is now.
Oh, and by the by... I married the man I met when I was 18 (he was 19), but not until I was 26. And yeah, we were together that whole time. It worked because we grew
together, not
apart. And we're really stubborn. It wasn't easy!
