It almost sounds like you both may not really be broken up if you're still spending nights at her place on occasion. It sounds more like you're on a break. Which is usually a bad idea since it means things usually linger on forever without anyone doing anything. IMO the jealousy is a product of this. You've still got those lovey dovey feelings for each other and indulge them, hence the jealousy. Sounds like you need to make a real decision of getting back together, really breaking up for a while and not seeing each other or just plain talking honestly about what's going on and setting up some ground rules if you're still going to see each other. But, I could be wrong.
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