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Mantus · 11-12-2006, 04:41 AM

Despite everything you wrote I can’t quite get a bearing on what your problem may be. Sorry.

However I can give you insight on my beliefs concerning the “issues” you have and perhaps that can guide you in the right direction.

1) “Loser guys” can probably teach you a thing or two about getting girls. The first truth is that being a loser doesn’t stop one from being attractive to women. If that's true then perhaps there is something else that women want! What can that be?

2) Women get to choose because you allow them to choose. Yes it’s all a game, but it’s a game we have to play – trust me there are very good reasons why it’s so complicated – almost all courtship is designed to protect women. In the end though, women cannot choose who they fall for. If you are attractive to a woman you have all the power.

3) see above

4) I am 26 as of last month. If I had the knowledge and experience I have now when I was 17…well, lets just say the past is the past, the only thing we have to look forward to is the future. There is a saying: “The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is now.”

5) Almost all attractive and cool girls are in some form of a relationship or another. Obviously! Don’t even be phased by it. Make your offer, if she accepts – cool. If not – respect her choice and move on. The dating game is...complicated. You have to understand that we have social dating rules but all rules are made to be broken and no one is better at breaking these rules then women. The important part is to let go of your judgements and simply enjoy your life and all the beautiful girls that are in it.

6) That would be an awesome story to tell! Not to mention it will pump your adrenaline and testosterone though the roof – you will GLOW to any woman that lays eyes on you.

11-12-2006, 04:41 AM	#33 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	Despite everything you wrote I can’t quite get a bearing on what your problem may be. Sorry. However I can give you insight on my beliefs concerning the “issues” you have and perhaps that can guide you in the right direction. 1) “Loser guys” can probably teach you a thing or two about getting girls. The first truth is that being a loser doesn’t stop one from being attractive to women. If that's true then perhaps there is something else that women want! What can that be? 2) Women get to choose because you allow them to choose. Yes it’s all a game, but it’s a game we have to play – trust me there are very good reasons why it’s so complicated – almost all courtship is designed to protect women. In the end though, women cannot choose who they fall for. If you are attractive to a woman you have all the power. 3) see above 4) I am 26 as of last month. If I had the knowledge and experience I have now when I was 17…well, lets just say the past is the past, the only thing we have to look forward to is the future. There is a saying: “The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is now.” 5) Almost all attractive and cool girls are in some form of a relationship or another. Obviously! Don’t even be phased by it. Make your offer, if she accepts – cool. If not – respect her choice and move on. The dating game is...complicated. You have to understand that we have social dating rules but all rules are made to be broken and no one is better at breaking these rules then women. The important part is to let go of your judgements and simply enjoy your life and all the beautiful girls that are in it. 6) That would be an awesome story to tell! Not to mention it will pump your adrenaline and testosterone though the roof – you will GLOW to any woman that lays eyes on you.