@Sage:
Wow, how did you know? I
do dress metro, loving every minute. When I don't dress nice, I don't even get eye contact. I guess I don't know how to dress up without looking all Uhn-Tss Uhn-Tss Uhn-Tss. Being in West Michigan doesn't help either, I bet.
Also, very interesting point about the public ego boost, I've never thought about that. What should I try to do besides physically leaving after a bit? They follow me around and I don't want to be a trophy conversationalist. Maybe I should get a donation jar for guys to put money in for me to watch their girls while they talk about guys stuff.
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6. Put your energy into working out and exercising. Or go to therapy.
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Yes, I work out. It's the reason I do it. I don't do it to look good or be healthy.
Here's a convo off Facebook with a girl I met at a party and talked for ~30 mins then ran into her the previous day:
Robert:
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didn't think i'd run into you, hehe
you live downtown, right?
rob
SomeGirl:
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haha, i didnt think that i would run into u either! it's so cool though, cuz i really haven't seen u forever!!!
yeah, i live downtown in winter hall :-D whyy?
Robert:
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i had a blast in winter hall my first year at [myschool], how do you like it?
anyway, i'm kinda busy this whole week, but we should go out for some coffee or rock climbing next week
rob
SomeGirl:
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[crickets and birds chirping]
Somebody'll find all sorts of GLARING things I did wrong, which is GOOD, I want you to find them, please.
Thanks
Rob
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What are you saying when you leave them a message? Are you asking them out right away, or do you say, "There is this party I am going to this weekend, I think you should go too. I have had some interesting things happen in the past few days"...
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5. That is your fault. One of my must haves when I was picking a school was hot girls. Arizona State is a pretty safe bet. Didn't help me much though. And there are hot girls everywhere.
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Forgot these...
Um... my school has 3 or 4 girls to every guy.
And I didn't have an event conveniently coming up, so I had to "make one up." Overwise I would've done something similar to what you suggested.