Sage

shaving- use Cootchie Cream. You can find it at www.goodvibes.com . It's really, really, really good shaving cream for the private parts. There's TONS of posts in the "Everything about shaving... anywhere!" thread in tilted sexuality.

Waxing- Find a REALLY good waxer, one with a ton of expierence. That's the first step. Talk to your waxer about the best thing to do with sensitive skin- really good waxers won't bother your skin, because they're doing everything right and just taking out the hair and not ripping skin. Or, you could try sugaring, which is like waxing but supposedly ONLY sticks to the hair and doesn't bother the skin at all.

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