Originally Posted by Acetylene

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How long did you two know each other before making love? If the first time you two saw each other naked, you also had sex, that can make things very difficult for being comfortable with each other, and for controlling your body's response. Nudity creates huge pressure to have sex in our always-clothed society, not because we are actually ready to do so, but because we are trained to associate nudity and contact with sex.

Getting comfortable with each other's naked bodies, and with your own, is vital to a comfortable sex life with each other. This is difficult when you are young and don't live alone, but take advantage of your time together. Always cuddle, and make a point of sometimes getting naked and NOT having sex. Soon you will be able to control your body's response to your naked girlfriend and not have an automatic "MUST COME NOW" response to her. She, in turn, will become less self-conscious, especially once she realizes her naked body is not inherently sexual, but merely her body. This is the gateway to easy sexuality for a woman--sexuality must be a choice, not a requirement forced upon her.

Plus you will get to see her naked!!!!