Obviously the decision is up to you. You can put yourself through a mockery of a relationship and be treated like you aren't important or don't matter to make everyone on the outside think that it's perfect. Now, this is not only going to shoot your self-esteem to shit, but it's going to confuse your children as to what a relationship is. I hate hearing "Stay together for the children". That is not going to be any healthier than ending a relationship in a mature fashion and being happy people. Children appreciate that more I think than to put up with upset parents who fight and make each other feel like shit.
My opinion, leave him. You aren't happy and he obviously doesn't want to be in a relationship at least with you. However, I can't make that decision for you. Good luck, think about it, and then do what is best for YOU. Everything else will fall in place.
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