Jth, I just wanted to let you know that I fully understand your lack of desire to jump into bed or a relationship with a girl just because she wants it. I say this because my partner is very similar to you in his views and
I know it from historical witnessed facts guys so dont think that he's put one over me. I just heard all of the other blokes 'man talk' about the 'good thing' your'e onto. Believe it or not you men are not all like that, some guys have to have more than an alright face and a spot to put the rod. Some guys have other priorities over a quick root, and if they were looking would prefer the whole package (brains, maturity, looks etc) for a more worth while experience. Yes I know this sounds farcical, especially from a woman (my man shocked me believe it). Please correct me if Im only making assumptions here Jth because I know this type of male species isn't entirely common.
In case anything should start up again in the future and your'e
still not interested(OMG whats she telling him!) I can smell the testosterone from here
, try the boundry approach. Let her know she's overstepping a boundary you put in place out of respect for her and yourself and she's stomping on it. Tell the truth, you are not attracted to her anymore than you are George Bush (or whoever you think appropriate at the time) and would appreciate it, if she enjoys your company for what it is, and to get past the intimate issue. Make it clear if she can not respect your boundary its, farewell until she can. Then stick to that rule without guilt. You do that and she might learn something about respect for others. Im not saying she's a bad person either probably just can't understand why your not like so many other guys.
