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My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven years. When we first started having sex it was all the time and now it is much less frequent. I personally am not unhappy with the change, but I don't know about my boyfriend. I think when you date someone for a long time you share itimacy in other ways.
You have to realize too that women often have different sex drives than men. I'm sure if I were to say I wanted it three times a day, my boyfriend would be all for it, but I don't and that's fine with me.
If you are concerned with the decline in your sex life, try making it more of a priority. Don't think of it as "Oh, great. I'll just do him and get it over with." Try and use it as an opportunity to be intimate with the person and satisfy their needs. Sex isn't always about climaxing to an orgasm, it's very much about love too.
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