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Originally Posted by abaya
Most people I've seen go through break-ups (myself included) are too weak to *really* want to get over someone... they just keep hanging on and drawing it out, hoping something, somehow, will happen. But it doesn't work. It is not respectful to yourself, and it's not healthy in any way. Masochistic, rather. Don't do it, man. Cut off and move on.
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This is some great advice! I just wish I had read this a week ago before my ex. contacted me (after dumping me). She claimed to want to be friends which is nice and all .. but I have no clue how I could do that - not with all the fucking awesome times we shared.
We tried hanging out as friends and it led to making out. We stayed together until fairly late that night at which point she went home. The next morning she had a major freak-out (anxiety attack) and then sent me a really nasty email to the effect that she never wants to see me again - ever.
Well .. at least now I have that closure we both need.
"Five whispered goodbyes and a kiss on the cheek" (can anybody name the band and song? I love this band - they sing my life).