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Originally Posted by Smooth23
Didn't last long, and I could see it comming for the past two weeks, but my girlfriend broke up with me. Basically she said in the past few weeks she's fell more into a friendship while I fell farther into love. It has alot more to do with our lack of time together due to her 2 jobs and school though. She says she still wants to be friends though, yay I guess? in the about 2 months we've been together I got closer to her than I've gotten to any other girl, even one I dated for about 8 months(my longest relationship). She gave me a drive to go back to school and get out of my dead in job that noone else ever has. I knew it was comming, but right now it hurts so bad, I never woulda thought it was going to hurt this much after knowing whats comming. I have no family around, and no friends I would see outside of work. I feel absolutely, completely, 100%, abandoned and alone. I just want to die. Excuse me while I go blow chunks.
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Somewhat similar situation here, which I'm just getting over in the past two months.Happened six months ago.
Dated for two months, fell in love(she was too).I was leaving for a College four hours away.She tried to go with me, but wanted to play College Basketball and only recieved one offer for a scholarship..two hours away.
Long story short, she refused to try a long-distance relationship while I pretty much tried to convince her otherwise.
My Advice: Like it's been said.Find some friends, do things that make you happy, talk to new girls.You don't have to marry them or fall in love, but being around new girls will help you move on infinitely quicker.Time is going to help, and whatever you can do that helps time fly without thinking of her is going to pave the rocky road of heartbreak.If you look around(anywhere) you'll notice more girls than you can shake a stick at.Likely one of them could be your perfect match.
One last thing.The whole "let's stay friends" thing.Don't do it.You want to get into a habit of not needing her, and still talking to her frequently is going to slow down the recovery time.
Just don't do it.