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You know, I've never heard someone say that they "didn't want to be in a relationship" and actually stick to it. When I hear girls say it, it's to avoid hurting the feelings of a boy who is enamored with her. Usually, they're with another guy in a week or two. Such a sudden change of heart? I rarely hear guys say it, but usually it's even less of a conviction than when the girl says it. Maybe I just know too many people with weak convictions, but it seems to be almost universally applicable.
If you like her enough, your "future" will suddenly encorporate her into it.
When my met my girlfriend, she didn't want a relationship as she'd just gotten out of a bad one. She just wanted to "be single." We were dating less than a week later.
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