Personally, for starter vibes, I recommend either a bullet or egg. Like ratbastid said, they come with the ability to change the intensity settings.
Wand vibes with variable speeds are also good for beginners because they let the user stimulate their clit fairly effectively while still giving them something substantial to play with should the user desire vaginal stimulation as well. In the case of wand vibes, I really recommend one designed for g-spot stimulation--they usually have fatter, angled heads that sit well on the clit and work well on the g-spot.
My choice of vibe is the Wahl coil. It's a plug-in model so I don't go through a lot of batteries, and it has two speeds. It also comes with a variety of attachments, and Good Vibes has special attachments to order. It was also incredibly cheap--I picked mine up for $10 at a Long's Drugs store.
The fact is--a lot of things can be used for vibrators besides the traditional ones. Your girl will eventually discover what she likes, but the bullet/egg or the g-spot wand are good for opening the door.
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