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analog · 06-25-2006, 03:16 AM

If you continue to work together, your chances of fixing this are very, very small. Living together is likely not the real issue, it's just more obvious because at home you can yell at each other where you cannot necessarily at work. Get a job where you don't see her. Your relationship is being suffocated. You're with each other 24 hours a day, every day, and that's just not always a workable situation. Especially since you're with each other only 6 months now.

People need to be individuals, not just one half of a pair. If you work and live together, you're making it very difficult for the relationship to grow. Relationships grow when individual personalities blend, when interests combine and your unique qualities begin to compliment each other and bond- not when they're both stifled out of existence before you guys have created that bond.

So, recap- one of you go work somewhere else, or you may as well kiss this relationship goodbye. Literally. And just so you know- it should not be her that quits, unless you make WAY more than she does.

06-25-2006, 03:16 AM	#9 (permalink)
analog Banned	If you continue to work together, your chances of fixing this are very, very small. Living together is likely not the real issue, it's just more obvious because at home you can yell at each other where you cannot necessarily at work. Get a job where you don't see her. Your relationship is being suffocated. You're with each other 24 hours a day, every day, and that's just not always a workable situation. Especially since you're with each other only 6 months now. People need to be individuals, not just one half of a pair. If you work and live together, you're making it very difficult for the relationship to grow. Relationships grow when individual personalities blend, when interests combine and your unique qualities begin to compliment each other and bond- not when they're both stifled out of existence before you guys have created that bond. So, recap- one of you go work somewhere else, or you may as well kiss this relationship goodbye. Literally. And just so you know- it should not be her that quits, unless you make WAY more than she does. Last edited by analog; 06-25-2006 at 03:18 AM..