It sounds like fetishism, where the fetish object is often associated with shame, which tends to manifest itself immediately following sexual gratification. There's nothing wrong with fetishes, but most people are trained that there is, and retain that shame in the form or guilt and/or disgust for the object that brings them pleasure.
The reaction to the girl in the OP sounds a lot like this kind of guilt/disgust pattern. It's unhealthy in either instance, but far more harmful when it involves ill treatment of another person.
My guess is that it's s symptom of associating sex with shame.
Gilda
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