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thespian86 · 06-12-2006, 05:58 PM

Normally, since I have been in both situations, the accusing and being wrong and the letting someone obviously cheat on me and not call her out, i would say "Be honest, be straight, compromise." But, alas, today does not warrent that answer.

i'm aware of your last thread and felt instantly that she was perhaps struggling, but really using it as a crutch. In fact everything I read about her seems she builds crutch after crutch. You are, in fact, on of her larger ones. You seem like, to use a cliche, a nice guy. And that means not blowing up or blowing things out of perportion; atleast outside of your own head. But this is rediculous. She makes excuse after excuse, evading (quite horribly really) you and your honesty. That says one very loud thing to be; her lack of willingness to be honest is a sign that she is completely dishonest. Also the fact that she continues to treat you like dirt is a loud and clear call from upstairs telling you to no longer sit this game out.

Pick up the bat and take a swing... get out of it man.

not only is she putting you in an emotional funk but she is obviously controlling, dishonest,... Good God, i don't even want to go on! If I could translate a scream in your face on the pc I would.

FUCKING LEAVE! Seriously.

And that comes from the king of nice and naive. Leave dude... leave.

06-12-2006, 05:58 PM	#17 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	Normally, since I have been in both situations, the accusing and being wrong and the letting someone obviously cheat on me and not call her out, i would say "Be honest, be straight, compromise." But, alas, today does not warrent that answer. i'm aware of your last thread and felt instantly that she was perhaps struggling, but really using it as a crutch. In fact everything I read about her seems she builds crutch after crutch. You are, in fact, on of her larger ones. You seem like, to use a cliche, a nice guy. And that means not blowing up or blowing things out of perportion; atleast outside of your own head. But this is rediculous. She makes excuse after excuse, evading (quite horribly really) you and your honesty. That says one very loud thing to be; her lack of willingness to be honest is a sign that she is completely dishonest. Also the fact that she continues to treat you like dirt is a loud and clear call from upstairs telling you to no longer sit this game out. Pick up the bat and take a swing... get out of it man. not only is she putting you in an emotional funk but she is obviously controlling, dishonest,... Good God, i don't even want to go on! If I could translate a scream in your face on the pc I would. FUCKING LEAVE! Seriously. And that comes from the king of nice and naive. Leave dude... leave. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much. Last edited by thespian86; 06-12-2006 at 06:01 PM..