Once you blow your load, it usually takes some time "a rest period" before you can get hard again, it really varies. With me, Its been as long as 20+ minutes, and as soon as 3-5 minutes. It really depends on a lot of factors. I think the best help I got was when after I was done and cleaned up, I was immediately orally pleasured. It took a couple of minutes and I was primed up again. You just need to wait to get the blood rushed to that area again. Also, I know exactly what you mean by getting it hard for a sec and then losing it, That will happen if you dont get all the blood flowing there, You need to be solid, because if you let up for a second you will lose your stiffness!
Also, I've HEARD that the best way (and only way as far as I know) to Stay hard after Round 1 is Viagra or something of that nature.... If someone knows a natural alternative, please enlighten me too!
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