Originally Posted by Clark

Dose she still live with you? Do you still pay all her bills? Are you paying for thier dates?

You are asking the right questions. Thier are know essy answers. I was engaged in my early 20's to a girl I lived with for 3 years. Things went south I tried to fight for her but in the end she was gone. It took time I thought she was the only one. Boy was I wrong. I have been haply maried for going on 6 years now to the most wonderful woman. I look back to that past relationship and wonder what was I doing.

At some point her actions need to have an affect on her life not just yours. Maby she should start havign to pay half the bills if she is going to treat you like a room mate.

This is the worst but there is another side and it is wonderful here.

Clark