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What Jess said. Don't follow her or have "Cheaters" put her on video. The best way to find out if she's seeing somebody is to ask her.
Otherwise, this is going to happen when you marry a first love at a young age. The world is simply not as compatible to that kind of behaviour as it was in 1957. Be creative, think about different ways to remedy the situation. Her telling you to get shit done is basically the same as her establishing a situation in which she will leave, which she will claim has happened unless you keep to an impossible standard of getting shit done.
So talk about the elephant in the room, instead of chores and such.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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