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Jimellow · 05-21-2006, 08:20 PM

Generally, there must be enough physical attraction for me to pursuing talking to her, and after that it almost entirely comes down to personality, and the ensuing conversation.

I find that good, meaningful, discussions are one of the things I am best at, so it's important that the girl has the mindset to enter and actively participate in such conversations.

I figure that I'm eventually going to get tired of looking at her (and she at me), but if there is a solid emotional/conversational bond, things will last for a long time.

Extremely attractive girls are both intimidating to me, and also a bit of a turnoff, as I tend to assume that such girls care more about physicality and superficiality than they do the things I consider to be more important, such as personality and the desire for a long term relationship.

05-21-2006, 08:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
Jimellow Junkie	Generally, there must be enough physical attraction for me to pursuing talking to her, and after that it almost entirely comes down to personality, and the ensuing conversation. I find that good, meaningful, discussions are one of the things I am best at, so it's important that the girl has the mindset to enter and actively participate in such conversations. I figure that I'm eventually going to get tired of looking at her (and she at me), but if there is a solid emotional/conversational bond, things will last for a long time. Extremely attractive girls are both intimidating to me, and also a bit of a turnoff, as I tend to assume that such girls care more about physicality and superficiality than they do the things I consider to be more important, such as personality and the desire for a long term relationship. __________________ Desperation is no excuse for lowering one's standards. Last edited by Jimellow; 05-21-2006 at 08:22 PM..