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Originally Posted by JinnKai
*snip* If the talk turns out to be less than desirable, it's NOT YOUR FAULT.
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See, that's still to be determined though. I have to talk to her and see if it actually *was* my fault, or if it's simply *her* take on things, or a combination of the two (which is usually the case). If I knew that she was a difficult person, I would likely try once to make it better, and then write it off if there was no progress. But she's not a difficult person (so far as I know at this point). She's a nice, good person, so it behooves me to question myself and see if in fact, I *did* do something "wrong", or something(s) that were mis-interpreted.
Regardless, I will do everything I can to rectify the situation. "Everything I can" translates to "while still being true to myself", though. I can certainly apologize if need be, and eat humble pie--but I won't take sh*t, ya know what I mean? I don't cotton to people trying to dominate me into the behavior *they* want from me.
But if I thought this was the case, I wouldn't have gone this route with trying to correct things.
Thanks for your guys' encouragement. It means a LOT to me.