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Originally Posted by CaliLivChick
Agreed. You're smart about school (if you got into a university, you have to be), so be smart about the rest of your life too. If he's controlling now, get out! Control now can lead to abuse later. Speaking from indirect experience.
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who says he's controlling and who says she's letting herself be controlled by him? she's voiced one thing her bf dislikes and all of a sudden, he's controlling?
maybe that from your side stems from your indirect experience...but you shouldnt go around thinking that way. sure, control from either side of a relationship is bad, but not all men who voice their dislikes to you are controlling. just some friendly advice
now, back to the subject, i used to get very painfull period pain.it would put me out sometimes for two days.it was the worst.
then one day i decided to go to the doctor.and he prescribed a very light contraceptive. he said it would take away the pain and i wouldnt have my period for as long as i used to. befor the pill, used to get it for 7-8 days.now that im on the pill it lasts 3-4 days. and, i dont experience as much pain as i used to.
mostly now its just that uncomfortable feeling. for me, it helped the first time round. the next month when i got my period i was over the moon.
it worked like a bomb.
and also, if your bf does not like the idea of contraception, just let him know the pro's about it.tell him that it would benefit you in a way that it wouldnt affect you as much when it does come to your studies.
its very helpfull.