I have to agree porn is not usually a problem it is the communication...he may not be directly hiding his porn habit from you , he mayjust beleive itis nota big deal,doesnt affect you.or he may think it would upset you so does not tell you andmay be thinking this does not matter as it does not affect the way he feels abtou you, and he does not look at porn when he should be with you..talk to him!how exactly are you feeling about it yourself though?is it because you feel he is comparing you?are you upset about the porn or the fact he did not tell you about it?clarify it in your own head before approach..
personally,it would not bother me.i look at porn and it does not affect my relationships.if it does nt affect anyone, it does not matter IMO.i do not expect this to bother anyone, so i wouldnt bother if i found out my man was doing it.
NB,thisapplies unless he wasl looking at porn i did not agree with , twisted,offensive or illegal images etc..
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