Thanks for the advice Sage. Since my post, my husband's asked to come over tomorrow night to discuss things, although I think it's not going to be good. We do have beautiful daughter and she really is the heart of us both, but I'm not one for staying together for the sake of a child. Don't get me wrong, I would never have considered having a child if we were on rocky ground and we weren't then. My parents stayed together until my brother & I were in the latter teenage years and the tension between them up until then was horrible.
You're right. I do feel safe in the current situation ..... to a degree. I don't want to make the wrong decision I guess, and at the moment, I feel whichever way will be wrong. That's a very daunting feeling.
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ciao bella!
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