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You've gotten some pretty good advice so far with the gym and hobby stuff. Finding something to take up your time will stop you from getting to wrapped up in it, but its probably not going to solve the problem if you want to get back together with her.
ShaniFaye pretty much hits the nail on the head though. Think about how she's changed because of what has happened in the time you've been apart. If she hadn't been with other guys and had the experiences she's had then you two would still have the same problems you did before. Because of them you get a second chance with someone you obviously care about. Also, obviously none of them were that great because she's now coming back to you after less than a year. If thats not an ego booster I don't know what is.
Whatever you do, make absolutely, positively sure that this is behind you BEFORE you get back into a relationship with her, if thats the way you go. If its not settled before the relationship starts then, like you said, you probably will end up taking it out on her and the relationship will fail.
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