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Talk to your husband.
Talk to your husband.
Talk to your husband.
Do things TOGETHER, do it for your daughter, do it for your sanity. If you feel like you can't talk to him in a productive manner, go to a marriage counselor together. Sort things out for the sake of your daughter- a year and a half is wayy too long to be in "limbo." It smacks of not wanting to completely lose the "saftey net" that you have in your husband, not wanting that little two letter prefix to go on his current title. You're dancing around the issue, hoping that if you ignore it, it will eventually work itself out. Well, it won't. It might be a good idea for you to go to individual counseling as well, as you said you cut yourself off volentairly when you cheated. Make sure that you're sweeping out ALL the cobwebs, covering all the bases, and squaring yourself away to be as whole and as OK as possible.
Be pro-active. Nothing ever came from nothing.
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Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's
She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox
She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus
In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi
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