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If she sent him some IN THE PAST, but hasn't sent any new ones, then how do we know he's not just talking about the ones she sent him before you started going out? I would call this an open-and-shut case, myself.
But, if you are feeling suspicious, I'd actually say go ahead and read the history. The reason why I say this is, you need to set your mind at ease. If you read it and find that no, it didn't happen, then you will never bring it up again and you can go on being happy together. Why harass her and accuse her lying to you when it might not have happened? This is unnecessary stress on your relationship.
On the other hand, if you do find evidence, then you will confront her NOT about the history, but about the pop-up you accidentally witnessed. That way, you get the best of both worlds: either you find out she is innocent and you feel ashamed for distrusting her and life goes on, or you confront her just like you would have done anyway.
In my experience, it is very harmful to accuse someone of something they have not done. I never, ever accuse someone of a transgression unless I have reasonable proof (not suspicion, PROOF) that they have done it. If someone does not deserve me to trust them in this way, then they are not worth my time. So, in other words, either find your proof and THEN confront her, or decide to trust her for her word and go back to being happy--or ditch her for someone you trust.
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