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In the name of everything that's holy and good, Xim, do not call your ex back---ever!!!
She's just out to play games with your heart and screw with your head, my friend. My best guess is that she knew full well that her calling you on your birthday would have that effect on you, and she's probably doing this to boost her ego with the knowledge that you're not over her and that she still owns your heart. In all seriousness, don't even recite her that little speech you prepared because it'll only make you look weak and confirm the fact in her mind that you're not over her.
For the sake of your sanity and your heart, block her number, erase her info from your address book, and cut her off completely from your life. She is the one who dumped you and broke your heart, so obviously she doesn't care about you.
Look at it this way, my friend. Be glad you found out her true colors now and are going through this heartbreak at age 21 instead of paying tens of thousands of dollars in divorce fees and paying her a substantial portion of your paycheck in child support while another man gets to raise your kids.
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Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation
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