I'd say that in my experience, it's rarely other issues, and is usually stress/tiredness/hormone issues/etc that are causing the low drive. But the high drive partner needs to know that it's NOT THEM - they are attractive and sexy and wonderful and it's external shite that's interfering. The high drive partner needs the low drive partner to make a concerted effort to reduce limiting factors so that they can increase the amount of physical intimacy the two get.
And yes, COMMUNICATION!!!
Sage - 3x a week is bad? Oh, man... I don't actually have TIME for more than that!
