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JustJess · 03-23-2006, 08:38 AM

I'd say that in my experience, it's rarely other issues, and is usually stress/tiredness/hormone issues/etc that are causing the low drive. But the high drive partner needs to know that it's NOT THEM - they are attractive and sexy and wonderful and it's external shite that's interfering. The high drive partner needs the low drive partner to make a concerted effort to reduce limiting factors so that they can increase the amount of physical intimacy the two get.

And yes, COMMUNICATION!!!

Sage - 3x a week is bad? Oh, man... I don't actually have TIME for more than that!

03-23-2006, 08:38 AM	#9 (permalink)
JustJess Unencapsulated Location: Kittyville	I'd say that in my experience, it's rarely other issues, and is usually stress/tiredness/hormone issues/etc that are causing the low drive. But the high drive partner needs to know that it's NOT THEM - they are attractive and sexy and wonderful and it's external shite that's interfering. The high drive partner needs the low drive partner to make a concerted effort to reduce limiting factors so that they can increase the amount of physical intimacy the two get. And yes, COMMUNICATION!!! Sage - 3x a week is bad? Oh, man... I don't actually have TIME for more than that! __________________ My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.