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Communication with your partner, investigation into potential causes of lowered libido, communication with your partner, changing of hormonal birth control or perhaps going off it entirely (if the woman has lowered libido), communication with your partner, a huge helping of patience and understanding, communication with your partner, perhaps couples thearapy or individual thearapy or both, and more communication with your partner.
It takes stregnth, total open and honest communication with each other ALL THE TIME, patience, acceptance, understanding, and dedication to get through this. A whole heapin of Love basically. Martel and I went through this a lot, in a way we're still going through it. The honeymoon is over, and no we're not having sex more than about three times a week, but we have figured out (and are figuring out) what works best for us.
Communication is the key that unlocks any door, the hammer that tears down any wall, and the tissue that wipes away any tear. Work on it every day of your relationship, and you'll never regret it.
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Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's
She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox
She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus
In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi
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