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Originally Posted by Carno
Sorry, but there are just certain things that should never be said no matter how tired or stressed or angry a person is. And not just what I said above, but also things like, "fuck off/you" or "I could do better than you."
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Because there isn't a clear line, at some point this just becomes a form of censorship that is "agreed upon". I agree with the people here saying that there is no inexcusable thing to say to your significant other. They are words, and in a responsible relationship the things you say are worked out between you or you both decide to walk away from things.
Also the problem is, if you make a slip and say something that you both believe neither of you should say, then does that mean that your s.o. would feel justified in doing something worse to you in return? And would you let them do that because you feel guilty about what you said? Would you not notice if you started harbouring negative feelings towards them because of this?