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I don't believe there is a "superior" way for sex once you've gotten past the basics- Every man and woman is different and so we react more strongly (or less strongly) to stimulation on certain parts of our bodies- so there's no "one way" to go about it. But all the basic biology is the same. If doing X technique or giving attention to a certain area is not so great, just continue exploring the rest of his/her body. Experiment, you could try Y technique there that you heard/read about or do something unique or familiar. learning of new places that can be stimulated, or learning different ways of stimulating those places can expand the realm of sexual possibilities with your partner, or just make it more fun.
As for the orgasm thing, a deep spot orgasm is just different than, say a clit orgasm. Whether is it stronger, weaker, more enjoyable, or even can be achieved is all dependant on the biology(and personality?) of the woman.and i don't think a man with an average penis would have any difficulty hitting it, as it can be reached with the tips of your fingers.
I've been thinking about this thread though. It's not really a typical thread, the central issue is ambiguous and fairly all-encompassing, and it's not about choosing a position and defending a belief. It's just a sharing of knowledge about sex and sensuality. Once again i'd like anyone reading this thread to share their knowledge, although discussion of the stuff already in here is perfectly fine as well.
*if anyone knows about Tantra, i'd love to hear about it, as my knowledge on that area is fairly sketchy.
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