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SecretMethod70 · 03-13-2006, 01:33 PM

I suspect that if you had another female you knew would be available after a divorce, you'd have the courage to speak with your wife. Be respectful: don't wait until it's the most convenient situation for you, talk to your wife now and don't lead her on.

If you really want to put effort into it, get counselling. Saying you need to work up the courage to speak with your wife *before* counselling is a cop-out. What do you think the one-on-one counselling will help you do? It will also help you better realize what you want and need. And to top it all off, it'll do those things *FAAAAR* better than you're going to get here.

03-13-2006, 01:33 PM	#39 (permalink)
SecretMethod70 Human Administrator Location: Chicago	I suspect that if you had another female you knew would be available after a divorce, you'd have the courage to speak with your wife. Be respectful: don't wait until it's the most convenient situation for you, talk to your wife now and don't lead her on. If you really want to put effort into it, get counselling. Saying you need to work up the courage to speak with your wife before counselling is a cop-out. What do you think the one-on-one counselling will help you do? It will also help you better realize what you want and need. And to top it all off, it'll do those things FAAAAR better than you're going to get here. __________________ Le temps détruit tout "Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling Last edited by SecretMethod70; 03-13-2006 at 01:38 PM..