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I agree. If he's still thinking about his ex that much, then it's the wrong time for your relationship. He shaved to go have sex with her. He planned it right? Maybe subconsciously, but he did. He got interrupted by her new boyfriend. Why the hell is she calling him if she's with someone new? There's something screwed up there. I think probably he's going to get back with her sooner or later.
Either way, he completely broke your trust. I have to disagree with Sage, who doesn't have baggage? But his baggage is keeping him in the past for now, and maybe you're not the right person to help him move on. I can't really say what you should do, but me, I think I'd break up and tell him he needs to think long and hard about what he really wants.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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