Astrocloud

Let's just list them and discuss things that people shouldn't say to one another and that you have heard a) other's say, or b) you have said to someone else.

My significant other has made me promise never to use the word "Bitch" (in regards to her) ever again. It's pretty easy. If she nags me I say "could you please phrase that in a more positive way?" -It seems to work better than calling names or saying things like "Stop bitching at me".

Last night she said something to me. I'm feeling like it's inexcusable. She told me that she could "do better than me". She went off for like 10 minutes on this subject. By "better" she explained -she meant that she could find someone who makes more money. I just sat there and took it all in.

During her apology she tried to say that this was her way of telling me that she loves me. After all -she must love me if she stays with me while she can do better.

I don't think it's excusable. I'm thinking about letting her do better.