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I've had sex briefly before, but probably a few minutes into it (before either of us came i asked him to stop) that's a different story though, LOL. I am my BF's first.. and I guess hes my first in the sense of having sex (it being longer than a few seconds)
I'm not sure about my expectations. I guess all I've really seen are from movies or TV. I've never watched porn (lol) so I guess mentally all I've gone by is what I've seen on TV..
It doesnt seem to have made a difference whether it was sex after a long bit of foreplay, or just a few minutes of it.. and then jumping into him "pumping away" as you put it lol =)
1- A few weeks ago he was still unhappy about being unable to make me come - mostly when he gives me oral. I guess we're both super inexperienced. I'm the first person hes even "messed around" with.. like just making out in bed and what not. So he has no solid knowledge about the clit, and I guess I myself.. just having started masterbating am figuring out exactly what I like done down there.. But yes, he definitely cares.. and tries to learn and figure out how to satisfy me mostly when hes going down...
2-Nope, I havent orgasm during oral sex or fingering. Sometimes its amazingly good.. but I just cant seem to climax.
3-It's probably a bit of both.. getting caught up in the moment, and also trying to get as into it as possible working to climax! It's probably partly mental.. just wanting to... to let him know he is pleasing me... but i guess i just need advice perhaps how to let go.. if i am holding back?!
And lastly, yes we are being safe- condoms.. and the such. thanks!
QUESTION: is it that most often when girls go on birth control.. they gain weight?
I've been trying to figure out whether or not I want to go on birth control. I guess I've been a little unhealthy lately so there's a little extra pudge.. haha "puppy fat" as he calls it and im just starting to go running and that whole bit again, so im scared to gain more weight!
THAnks for th ehelp!! =)
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