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Well I have been away from my GF since last sunday, and i am still always really thinking about this problem.
Lis,
Your post was excellent, and very insightful. I will be seeing my lady on friday, and truth be told, i have to tell her that this has hurt me.
I think the best bet is to first her what her understanding of the matter is. Because it is terrifyingly difficult 1000km away to make a really sound and reasoned judgement.
Furthermore, tomorrow is valentines day. She has the whole day with no lectures and will be revising really hard. Now i am so scared that this f$ckwit will call her and ask her for dinner or something....its really scaring me.
Menoman,
You make a very good point, once you are on the friend ladder it is supremely difficult to make the jump across, and i know she only sees him as a friend.
Well thanks guys, i hate this predicament so much.
very best,
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