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ZeRoGRaViTY · 02-12-2006, 03:41 PM

LoL Male and cello. If a guy feels a certain way and feels uncomfortable with the fact that you are flirting or hanging out with another guy, regardless of how you know this individual, and you just break up with him? WOW. Understood that everyone is their own person and yes, no one does own ANYONE else. But, for someone to just disregard there bf/fiance/husband's feelings like that?. To me that is shallow. But then again if a girl would break up with me over how I felt deep down inside, then they were no good for me to begin with. I had a girlfriend who did have alot of guys friends and she told me this from the beginning. I was ok with it because I also hung out with these guys and all in all, they were pretty cool people. It doesn't mean it didn't bother me deep down and I wish it wasn't that way. Her excuse (yes, she did even give me an excuse on her own for having so many "guy" friends) was she didn't get along with girls that well. I am sure I am not the only guy in this world that has heard that excuse.

Now on the other hand, if a guy has alot of girlfriends it is a totally different story in most cases. I am not generalizing females and males by any means btw. I am just speaking from my personal experiences. (Trust me, I have had a few

Shut it TC lol.) Woman have had to do more or less, undercover work to make themselves feel better about the relationship her BF has with another female. This research can span anywhere from befriended this female, to keeping their senses on high alert at all times. (Guys know your tricks. We just don't say anything cause then you make new tricks, and we have to wait another 10 years to figure the new ones out.)

Regardless, I am not bashing any gender or relationship. I am just speaking from my life and WIIDDE aray of gf's that i have had. I just believe while everyone is their own individual and CAN do what they want, people just have to have a certain amount of respect for one another and how eachother feels. Openness and comunication key.

BTW the one gf that I was speaking of above is now dating a friend that WE used to hang out with on a regular basis.

02-12-2006, 03:41 PM	#28 (permalink)
ZeRoGRaViTY Upright Location: Rochester, NY	LoL Male and cello. If a guy feels a certain way and feels uncomfortable with the fact that you are flirting or hanging out with another guy, regardless of how you know this individual, and you just break up with him? WOW. Understood that everyone is their own person and yes, no one does own ANYONE else. But, for someone to just disregard there bf/fiance/husband's feelings like that?. To me that is shallow. But then again if a girl would break up with me over how I felt deep down inside, then they were no good for me to begin with. I had a girlfriend who did have alot of guys friends and she told me this from the beginning. I was ok with it because I also hung out with these guys and all in all, they were pretty cool people. It doesn't mean it didn't bother me deep down and I wish it wasn't that way. Her excuse (yes, she did even give me an excuse on her own for having so many "guy" friends) was she didn't get along with girls that well. I am sure I am not the only guy in this world that has heard that excuse. Now on the other hand, if a guy has alot of girlfriends it is a totally different story in most cases. I am not generalizing females and males by any means btw. I am just speaking from my personal experiences. (Trust me, I have had a few Shut it TC lol.) Woman have had to do more or less, undercover work to make themselves feel better about the relationship her BF has with another female. This research can span anywhere from befriended this female, to keeping their senses on high alert at all times. (Guys know your tricks. We just don't say anything cause then you make new tricks, and we have to wait another 10 years to figure the new ones out.) Regardless, I am not bashing any gender or relationship. I am just speaking from my life and WIIDDE aray of gf's that i have had. I just believe while everyone is their own individual and CAN do what they want, people just have to have a certain amount of respect for one another and how eachother feels. Openness and comunication key. BTW the one gf that I was speaking of above is now dating a friend that WE used to hang out with on a regular basis. Last edited by ZeRoGRaViTY; 02-12-2006 at 03:45 PM..