i've had that problem b4...
i'll get an initial erection, then it'll go down a bit by the time i want to use it (i really like teasing her & playing with her body)
i've found that if i focus on the problem (i.e. think "get harder, get harder") it actually gets worse because i am no longer thinking about the sensations...
so we learnt to gently rub the tip of my penis on her clit (mutual good feeling) and i don't think about it specifically.
that way, he gets hard again & we go to town.
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